On a cold, Sunday morning the 5 of us headed to Des Moines Christian School where Summit Creek Church holds their services. Summit Creek is a 5 year old church plant lead by Pastor Jonathan Palmer. Jonathan grew up in Des Moines.
Summit Creek is a church which is on a Mission of helping people Know God, Find Freedom, Discover Purpose, and Make a Difference. They carry out their purpose every day and twice on Sunday.
We were greeted at the door and when we explained who we were they lead us to the area where volunteers gather on Sunday. The Assistant Pastors wife met us and then we headed to service. They use the gym at Des Moines Christian School for their worship area.
The Service was again all about Mission. Every element was intentional about carrying out their Mission.
Afterwards we talked to Pastor Jonathan who offered us anything we need as we are making decisions to move forward. You can check out the church at www.summitcreek.com. I would also encourage any of you who would like to take a Sunday and go there and experience an ARC church for yourself.
What I have just given you is the summary of the experience at Summit Creek. The big idea is not to copy and paste everything to our church but to see what a church on Mission is like and what ARC is all about.
ARC is not about telling us what to do or forcing us to give money to keep the wheels of the organization spinning. ARC is about planting church and offering existing churches a place to learn, grow, and connect. In fact, this coming Sunday they will have 25 new church plants starting!!
I also think it is important you all understand this is just the first part in a Revitalization in our church. We need a group of churches moving forward to help us do this. Step 1 is what we are doing right now. Moving Credentials, obtaining our own 501c3, a new name, and a new place to join is all part of step one. What is after this? What would be a step two?
Step Two then begins an inside out revitalization. We examine everything according to our mission. We begin to highlight areas we can improve and we improve. If we always do what we have always done we will always get what we have always gotten. Everything needs to be examined!!! Some of these changes will be structural as far as leadership. For example, we know the Paul and other writers in the New Testament are clear about Male Eldership. They don’t just talk culturally but they go back to creation. But this doesn’t mean women do not have a seat at the table. We have to figure out how to do this. We need the right people at the table to help make godly, forward thinking decisions. Status Quo is no longer good enough.
Don’t be scared by this but encouraged by this. We are being revitalized from a place that worked well in the past but doesn’t work now. Christian Union came up with its structures before the Automobile. We can do better. We will do better!
You are here not because we have a certain number of Elders or Trustees. You are not here because Christian Union is on the building. You are not here because there are committee heads. You are here because of Jesus. You are here because you have found a home. You all work on your homes because they need some work from time to time. We need to work on our church and with all of us working together we can accomplish much.
I invite you to pray and dream with me about a church that is not hindered by the way we have always done things and one that is all about the mission of leading people into a growing relationship with Christ.
If you have any questions, please feel free to call or text me (515-210-6310) or email me firstname.lastname@example.org, or if you want to sit down over a cup of coffee, I would love to do that as well.
What are you worth? Sounds like an interesting question and there are people who have tried to place a monetary value on human life. But I would like you to think about what you are worth? if we are honest we have let something or someone give us value. Work for many is where they find their worth. This leads to people becoming workaholics and not taking any time for rest. They don't look forward to retirement because they will become worthless. Sports is another one of those definers. If you are good then your life revolves around it. How many of you are mortgaging your family for sports? How about relationships. For many it is a person that gives them worth. Their spouse gives them worth or their kids give them worth. But is any of this healthy? NO. Hard to say but it is the answer we must embrace. So where does our worth come from?
To answer that question you must start at the beginning. Where did life begin? You can follow the Stephen Hawkins of the world you believe in a big bang or you can follow Jesus. Jesus died and rose again. He believed the beginning was the record of the book of Genesis. I think I will go with the person who died and came back to life. Genesis 1 tells of the created order. When you read it carefully you find that God stops before creating humans. Everything else is created and flourishing but now is the time for God's Ultimate Creation - Humans. "Let us make human beings in our image to be like us" Genesis 1:26 NLT. Something was different about his creation. It is what is called the Imago Dei or the Image of God.
We were created not as anything else was. We are created in the Image of God and that changes everything. This means our worth and value comes from God. This changes everything!! This means it doesn't matter what anyone else says about us. It means we don't have to find our value, because we have value. All human life does. From the kid in the wheelchair to the Elderly nearing the end of their life - all human life as worth and value.
So perhaps you have been struggling with your worth. Please read this carefully: You were created in the image of God and have worth, value and significance. Don't ever doubt that!!
As men we could say we have many faults, but none so damaging as not being willing to admit that we are afraid. In Rocky 3, Rocky has been knocked out by Clubber Lang. Apollo comes to train him and help him be a champion again, but something is wrong with Rocky. Finally an exchange on the beach leads to the answer: "I Am Afraid". The movie takes an incredible turn after this. The champion is back and wins!!
Everything changes when Rocky admits he is afraid. Since Adam ate the fruit and hid in the Garden from God, men have been afraid. However, few men ever admit to being afraid. It is not something we see in most movies. When is the last time James Bond was afraid? Was Superman, Spiderman, or the Hulk? The answer is NO, but they are not real either. A REAL man admits he is afraid so that fear can be conquered.
Men who are afraid will turn to laziness, pride, or abandonment. Look around for a moment. How many men are turning to pornography because it is easier than a real relationship? How many men are looking for easy battles to win? Men turn to laziness and look for what is easy because of fear. Or perhaps you are the man who knows it all. You put on a great act when you have no idea. You are afraid people will discover how little you do know so instead of admitting it you become proud. And then there is the worst, abandonment. Men do this by walking out on their family or worse killing themselves and leaving a mess behind. This leaves a path of destruction which carries on to other generations. So what do we do?
Courage. Courage is not the absence of fear rather making a different choice when we are afraid. The Bible is clear that courage comes from the power and presence of Christ. We don't just run across it, but find it in Jesus. Just look at the disciples. They were afraid of everything until the resurrection. After Jesus rose they found courage - why - because Jesus was alive and his power and presence gave them the courage they needed.
Men we need to be courageous. Our family is counting on us being courageous. We need to fight for our family by admitting our fear and being courageous in the power and presence of Christ.
Let's choose courage!!!
So far we have seen the Shepherd protects and cultivates the sheep. Today we discover the shepherd who cherishes the sheep. When Jesus declared himself the Good Shepherd in John 10 he told his disciples " So I sacrifice my life for the sheep." Cherishing the Sheep leads to sacrificing for the sheep. This is what we are called to do in our marriage and family. Craig Groeschel uses this phrase "give up things you love for things you love even more". What a perfect picture of sacrificing.
So let's start with our marriage.
We are told by our culture we can do it all but we really can't. The only thing more important than our marriages is our walk with Jesus. So why do so many things compete with this relationship? Our jobs, our hobbies, and even our kids can compete for and cause us to put our marriages off to the side. If you don't give up things you love for the things you love more you will cherish the wrong things. Cherish your kids more than your spouse and when they move out you will have nothing left. The decision to enter the covenant of marriage is a decision to say no to things we love for things we love even more.
What about our families?
In the order of priorities it is God, Marriage, and then family. Again, too many people are cherishing the wrong things. Your kids know what you cherish. They know if your hobbies are more important than they are. They know if your job is what you cherish most. They know. And this cherishing of the wrong things does have consequences. Your children will compete for your love and attention. They might act like never before in order to capture your attention once again. Is this happening in your home? It probably means it is time to give up things you love for things you love even more.
Start cherishing what is most important again. It is another way you fight FOR your family. Don't and you continue to fight against them. The choice is yours.
A Shepherd is responsible to cultivate the sheep. In Iowa where I live we watch the cycle of farming. From planting to harvesting to preparing to do it all over again. There is a specific plan for growth. Shepherds also had to be mindful of what the sheep needed in order to grow. David refers to this in Psalms 23. "He leads me beside still waters." The reference is that sheep will not drink in moving water. You couldn't lead the sheep to a river because the flow of the water would push them away. Rather you would look for a spring or perhaps an area where the water pooled and was still and quiet. That is what the sheep needed.
So can I ask what is your plan of growth for your marriage? Every married couple heads down the isle at the end of the ceremony excited for the journey ahead. A new chapter has begun. But if this new chapter has no plan then the marriage could be headed for failure. NO one goes into marriage planning divorce but it you don't plan for growth and intimacy you will be frustrated. What does your marriage need right now? There are some incredible conferences made to help. There are endless resources out there to help. Get help!! Don't wait!! Formulate a plan for your marriage to grow.
So what is your plan for your kids?
If you look at the picture above it reminds every parent that simply dumping our kids off at church is NOT the answer. It is our job as parents to have a plan of growth for our kids. How you will make sure they grow up and are still following Jesus? How will you help them be healthy and develop good habits? Do you know the school system has a plan for our kids. Certain ages where they want to teach certain things? They have a plan and are executing it. What is our plan? It is hard to watch frustrated parents who just don't know what happened to their kids. Ultimately there was never a plan for growth. You will decide how your children spend their time. You will decide what habits are instilled in them. And what you do with God will reflect into what your children do with Him.
Today is a great day to begin. Put together a plan and cultivate your marriage and family for growth. You can fight for your family in this way!!
The Bible has many references to shepherd and sheep. It was a common thing to see shepherd and sheep just about everywhere you went. Abraham, Moses, and David were all Shepherds. Shepherds were the first to arrive in Bethlehem to see the new born king. But because we don't have this familiarity with sheep and shepherds we can lose what the writers of scripture are trying to teach us. The Shepherd had 3 distinct roles which Jesus refers to in John 10. They were to protect, cultivate, and cherish.
Today we begin with protect.
You might remember the story of David and Goliath when David gave his resume to King Saul that he killed a Lion and a Bear who had tried to attack and kill the sheep he was entrusted to. David was the only protector the sheep had. Sheep have no mechanism to defend themselves. They have no speed, no sharp fang, and no poison. They have no alternative but to trust their protection to someone else. That is the Shepherds responsibility.
So in our homes we must protect. So does that mean we buy weapons and prepare for war? No we are fighting a different enemy who seeks to steal, kill and destroy. We protect in different ways.
Protecting your Marriage.
Your marriage needs protecting. You need to be on your guard. When marriages are destroyed, families are destroyed and everyone is effected. You protect by setting up guardrails. You set these far enough away from danger and sin that if you ever hit one you do very little damage to the marriage and prevent destruction. You need guardrails to govern what you do around people of the opposite sex you are not your spouse. I encourage you to sit down together and set some boundaries for your protection. Do NOT think you can do whatever you want without consequences. If you fail to set guardrails the enemy has a greater chance to destroy your marriage. You need to do this.
Protecting your Family
Protecting your marriage is protecting your family. But how are you helping your kids set up boundaries and guardrails. They want to fit in and be accepted and they will do almost anything to do that. You have to help them. They need guidance as they chose friends, begin dating, and decide what the future holds for them. You can either help them set guardrails are watch them crash and burn somewhere in their life. Normally we wake up when it is too late and damage has been done. Don't wait!! talk to your kids and help them establish guardrails. You'll be glad you did.
Let us not take lightly the protection we are to have in place. Let's defend what is worth fighting for.
Fights. Every family has their share of fights. We can argue over the silliest things but we argue. The problem becomes when we get confused over who the enemy is. We view the people we are arguing as our enemy and this view just causes deep divisions in our families. In fact once you label your spouse the enemy it puts a strain on your relationship. But all of this enemy talk is misguided. Your spouse is NOT the enemy!
Your children are NOT the enemy!
Jesus helps us identify the enemy in John 10:10 "The thief's purpose is to steal, kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life." So who is this enemy? Satan. The enemy at the very beginning in the Garden is still our enemy. He is the one trying to destroy our marriage and family. Jesus at one points call him "The father of many lies". Satan lies and makes your spouse out to be your enemy. He lies and you turn on your kids. And while he has you distracted he is carrying out his purpose to steal, kill and destroy.
Over the next few days I want to help you understand how to fight for your family and not against them. But start with this simple truth and make sure when you see your spouse and kids you tell yourself over and over again - they are NOT my enemy. You may be in a difficult season. There might be a lot of tension in your home. Don't let any circumstances convince you the enemy is not Satan.
It's time to fight!! It time to put on the gloves and fight for what really matters. Fight for your marriage and fight for your family.
20 years ago today Jill and I started on a journey together. We had been married a whole 5 months at that point and had no idea what we were doing or getting ourselves into. We packed a moving truck and a couple of vehicles and with the help of some friends made the 60 mile journey from Oskaloosa to Indianola. A dozen or so people were waiting to help move us into the parsonage and the journey began. We had no idea how long we would be here or what would happen over this time. 10 months later came the birth of Stephen and the rest as they say is history.
If you would have pulled me aside 20 years ago I am not sure I would have thought much about how long we would be here. I do know I had no clue it would be this long. I wanted to survive the first few months. I do remember the day I sat in my living room reading the Purpose Driven Church by Rick Warren and wondering if God’s will included what Rick Warren had desired as well – a lifelong pastorate in one church. It is not very common.
These 20 years have been filled with lots of laughter, memories, and tears. Some of you have been here for the entire journey so far. Thank you. Your commitment to our church has made a big difference. Some of you are new to the journey and we are just getting to know each other. And I look forward to getting to know you.
We know one thing for certain and that is we never know how long the journey will last. There is still much to be done. Our culture moves farther away from God every day. Warren County is one of the more unchurched counties in the state of Iowa. Our city is a great place to live and a place in great need of Good News.
So before I get too sentimental here, let me say thank you. Thank you to those who are sharing this journey with us. Thank you for all who give of your time, energy and finances to the work of Jesus’ church here in Indianola. Thank you to those who take time and pray for me and my family. Thank you for the kindness you show us throughout the year and especially at Christmas. Thank you for calling me your pastor.
May God continue this journey 20 more years,
Jesus Follower, Husband, Father, and Pastor and trying to keep those in the right order....